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what I trust more than god

when I was around 13, i started to wonder about – and ask around – what was the meaning of life, existence and all of this? no one really had a satisfying answer, so i figured that it was up to me to figure out the existence biggies: God. Love. Happiness.

i grew up with a distinct lack of dogma and a preponderance of think-outside-the-box-ness. i am grateful for this. i know this is far from the case for so many people.

you likely had God shoved down your throat. Love may have shape-shifted into a mirage, reflected in the glare of the Hollywood sign. Happiness may have became a metaphor: slippery as an eel.

i’ve spent my life, answering for myself, through my own direct experience, the questions of God, of Love, of Happiness. i know ‘em when I meet ‘em. i trust the precise set of sensations in my body that let me know God has visited, that this is Love (or not) and allows me to be cartographer of my Happiness.

there’s a place where all three converge. it’s not Heaven, not Nirvana, not a Cold Stone Creamery near you. it’s actually an unlikely place, perhaps the last place most of us think to look for it.

it’s THIS I trust more than God.

it’s THIS that steers the ways to Love and Happiness.

(and it’s my big WHY to help Any & Every Woman find it for herself.)

you’ve probably heard the story of when god first created humans? well, when humans began to multiply and be fruitful they also began to ask for more and more of god’s time. to escape, god went to the Bahamas, but the humans found her there. god went to a mountain top, but the humans found her there too. so finally god split herself into a zillion little pieces, and placed one piece directly inside each human. because she knew that was the LAST place the humans would think to look for God, the Divine, the Most Holy, and at last She’d get some peace.

(i don’t really think God’s a he or a she, but i had to pick a pronoun, so i picked the underdog one)

that story is all well and good, i just add that the Most Holy placed that little piece of Divine right in your body. your woman’s body. the LAST place most of us would think to look for it.

Body? Don’t trust that, we hear. Body is an animal, trust the rational mind or the cleansed spirit in order to transcend this visceral plane and be worthy of the kingdom of heaven.

Woman’s Body? don’t trust that, we hear. Woman’s Body is the root of all sin, and will lead you to lust, ruin and dancing on the bar of a night club at Spring Break, barefoot and pregnant.

and not only is THIS (that I trust more than God) right in your woman’s body, it’s actually between your legs. definitely the LAST place most of us would think to look for it.

THIS that I trust more than God, I call the Oracle Between Your Legs.

here’s one for us word-nerds: ORACLE: it comes from the Latin verb orare “to speak.”

an Oracle is a source of wise counsel or prophetic predictions, inspired by the gods. Oracular utterances are a form of Divination.

Oracles are portals through which gods speak directly to people. as in, YOU.

bottom line: God – swap out your favorite term for the Divine and Most Holy – speaks to you, through you, through your woman’s body, through your Oracle.

we are talking about embodied wisdom, not theoretical wisdom. your Oracle is this spot on your body where Source Itself meets the material world, and has a party.

God isn’t out there somewhere, She’s right ‘twixt your thighs, m’lady.

i know i just said about 18 heretical things:

* you can know God in your own direct experience. you are not limited to get to God only through some book or path, righteous though they may seem.

* the voice of the Divine can and will guide you into the woman you Truly Are, if you get to know Her voice, Her language and Her communication style.

* you CAN – and must – trust the wisdom of your Woman’s Body to steer.

* the spiritual and the sexual are not separate; in fact, the fuel for Creation itself, for Life-Force Source Energy itself, likewise powers your libido. all humans have access to this, but women are uniquely poised to wield this potent kindling.

* being human, and a human woman at that, is not a fallen condition. there’s nothing to fix, fade or change. the Oracle Between Your Legs is at once your connection to the Divine while also being sweetly humanizing. (if you liked that, feel free to tweet it)

sounds like a pretty great thing to find, eh?

now, Oracles are funny creatures. they are nourished by the very stuff that entire cultures and civilizations discount and overlook entirely, the same stuff that make a woman thrive, glow and blossom into her brilliance.

i’m all about EveryWoman channeling the genius of the Oracle Between Her Legs, and i’ll be taking and teaching all about it this year.

this is what I want to cause an epidemic of:

“It was SO delicious to get back in touch with my Oracle and my feminine side! My life has truly shifted. I feel more positive, confident and centered than I’ve felt in years. My world is awesome again!” ~ Tamara

“This has blasted away doubt and insecurity and reminded me of the power that I already possessed between my legs. It was like the last remaining shards of glass were plucked from my heart and it started to beat freely and openly again.” ~ Tabitha

“My business doubled, and then tripled.” ~ Nisha

“My norm was feeling unworthy, jealous, less okay because I was not who SHE was. I have only recently, because of finding my Oracle, been able to be lifted up by and not broke down by the women around me, both familiar and stranger.” ~ Ceri-Anne

“I now have a deep appreciation of the value of the knowledge I possess and an awareness of the need to share it. And the trust to allow myself to re-brand my website again to accurately reflect who I am and what I have to offer the world.” ~ T.G.

“A lovely constant of happiness & joy as anxiety & doubt slip ever farther away. I am filled w/a DEEP sense of peace & well-being and excitement over whatever new adventure is around the corner for me while immensely enjoying my daily moments NOW.” ~ Gladys

“What a pleasure to engage with my body on a physical level and listen to its desires.” ~ Goddess

“I got the guy I married back! I feel like I’m a bride on my honeymoon again!” ~ Kristina

“Last night I had the biggest orgasm ever and so did HE!!!!!!” ~ Candice

your Oracle won’t make your life perfect, but it does make it impossible to feel truly lost, ever again.

so, please stay tuned in the coming weeks and months. i’ve got great tips, articles, courses and experiences, all crafted to help you find YOUR Oracle.

and then, watch out world! the lit-up ladies are a’comin!

but for now, please leave a comment:

what lets you know you can trust yourself?
what lets you know you can trust another?

to what YOU trust, without doubt,


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