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when i first started coaching over 12 years ago, i faced a paradox that so many coaches and healers – or really anyone with a service, skill or product to offer – face: being a great coach and healer is only part of the deal; i also need to find people to pay me to get coached and be healed.

this is also called “sales and marketing,” 😉 an arena in which i have felt, particularly in my early years, perpetually in the slow lane and honestly, quite wary of. (although these days i can’t throw a mouse without (gently) hitting one of my friends who is somewhere between genius and savant in the field.)

for me, it was truly depressing to realize that being an excellent coach doesn’t automatically mean you’re set with folks lining up at your door who want to pay you to coach them. marketing and sales more important than my craft? considering that was almost enough for me to throw in the towel.

i was resistant at first because i didn’t want to stretch to learn something new.

after i got over that hurdle, i had to stare down the popular belief that taking money for healing isn’t spiritual and generally means you are a bad person.

after i healed that uncomfortable soul contusion, i uncovered another zinger, which is more like my friend Lisa Fabrega puts it: “that marketing is slimy, smarmy and manipulative. many entrepreneurs try to avoid it. we say, ‘it feels inauthentic. i don’t think it’s fair to manipulate someone into giving me their money.’”

i had to look at this new dragon in the face and ask, “is it inherently true that when there’s money changing hands there’s manipulation present?”

i think the main cultural reference point that defines what we think about sales and marketing (at least, it’s true for me) comes from era of charlatans and snake oil salesmen, and then rapscallions of early advertising, figuring out how to push people’s buttons to get us to buy something that we don’t need – or is even harmful – but is touted as something without which we’d be in danger or is “all the rage” and vital to our keeping up with the Joneses.

(amazing hair tonic! night fears begone!)
early ads

in our individual and cultural DNA, we’re wary of being conned. we equate advertising – or selling something – with being sold a bill of goods, our weak spots preyed upon for someone else’s nefarious gain; getting tricked out of our hard-earned money and left a fool.

under this ethos, as a coach, i worry if i charge for my services, or charge too much, i’m conning some poor sucker out of his money. and as someone looking for coaching, i worry that parting with my money makes me a fool.

it’s only fairly recently (at least to my eye) that there’s been a shift in the prevailing winds, in which marketing could be reframed as means to authentically offer a service to a group of folks who are hoping and praying for exactly what you are providing; that sales could be re-understood to be a blessed rubber band that connects you to exactly the right-fitting people; that spending money could be re-considered to be investing in yourself, with returns that come less via monetary interest, but via YOU, as a happier, healthier person, having the extraordinary experiences you want most. following this possibility, “investing” – aka spending your hard-earned cash – can be a win both for the person spending the money and the person receiving it: both get confirmation that they are WORTH INVESTING IN. often, the larger the investment, the bigger the breakthrough and the longer the lesson lasts.

we are – at least, for sure i am – catching up to the idea that getting invested in and investing in ourselves can be a sacred, squeaky-clean honest set of actions that creates nothing but win-wins; that both the spender and earner can feel like they got the best deal. {tweet it}

my friend Stacey (who’s the creator of Holistic MBA, a program that trains coaches and healers in marketing and sales through methods that don’t include selling your soul to the devil), told me, “i see selling as offering a resource that someone who didn’t know about before. when you present the resource the other person has a choice to take it or leave it.”

so as the cultural tide turns, we then have to turn our scrutiny inward and ask ourselves (to paraphrase Stacey again, who’s one of those business/marketing/sales savant friends that surround me), “when i’m selling something, am i truly conning someone into buying something they don’t want or need and that may harm then? is the thing i’m offering actually of value, useful and worthwhile? could it change their life? is my motivation to be of service?”

in the quiet truth of my heart, i asked and asked … and came to the place of knowing from tip to toe that my offering is in fact of tremendous value. i can say without doubt that whomever i work with, their life will change dramatically for the better, for good.

so, then, if we are a fit – if what i’m offering is what they truly want –  i’m actually doing them a disservice by NOT offering them my shizzle and presenting it in the most appealing, clear way possible. in fact, i have an ethical responsibility TO offer it. and in fact, i have an ethical responsibility to offer it at a price point that allows me to walk my talk, live what i’m teaching, thrive and not burn out; and that has the buyer stretch into a new level of believing they are worth investing in.

“otherwise,” Stacey reminds, “you ain’t gonna have a business because no one is going to understand your message.”

so, how do you know if the coach/healer/service/product you’re considering investing in is pure of heart, clean of hand and not a flim-flam con-artist? here are 8 hopefully helpful questions to activate your own Knowing and clarify your conviction to leap into their arms:

  1. does their offering have you start to see things for yourself that you’d not considered possible before?
  2. does their process for taking you from where you are to where you want to go, seem “workable” to you? (you know, “6-pack abs in just 6 seconds” likely ain’t “workable”)
  3. do you feel like they “get” YOU and see YOU?
  4. do you feel more expansive and more confident in yourself as you consider their shiz?
  5. will this investment put you or anyone you care about in major harm? (most $$ investments i’ve made that were worth it felt a little – or a lot – painful, but didn’t stretch me or my fam into financial damage).
  6. do they walk their talk? are they a shining example of what they are teaching? and, in their BEing, do they inspire you to step up into your own version of what they are offering? (or, do they seem so perfect and untouchable that you feel you’re a lowly nobody, if only you’d be lucky enough to touch the hem of their garment?)
  7. and then, mind aside, does your BODY feel like you should invest with them?

i’ve made some bad “investments” on my path, to be sure. (my dear friend Elishia calls it “life tuition.” it’s true, some breakthroughs are more expensive than others and some lessons last longer than others) but after each one (after i lick my wounds), i ask myself, “what worked about that? what would i do again next time and what would i do differently?”

and then next time i’m keener in my hearing of my YES and my NO and more congruent with what’s a great use my of money. so the 8th question to ask yourself is,

8. how you can hone your intuition and sharpen your inner Knowing through the scrutiny that’s only possible with hindsight?

and in case you ever waver, you are more than worth investing in, friend. always.

best, LiYana

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PS: about the whole walk-your-talk thing … i’m excited to be featured TONIGHT in the Healthy Passionate Woman’s Summit, a dive into how we can stop being last on our own to-do lists. Mary (the host) and i will be discussing what i would say to a woman who is holding back or doubting her ability to discover and unleash the healthy passionate woman inside her. one of my favorite discussions! Grab a seat here.

PPS: my friend Stacey? well, she and her business partner Carey are offering their Holistic MBA Core Training Program, but only for another couple of days. Stacey is one of my best friends, Carey is a former client and both are luminous geniuses in the arena of getting the hang of sales and marketing while remaining the authentic, scrupulous healer/coach you currently are. it’s a phenomenal program, one i wish i’d been able to cut my teeth on, in my own early days. Check it out here.

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Tribal Truth San Francisco Launch Party

Saturday, May 21
12-5:00 pm

Join us for a feisty, fresh, woman’s empowerment symposium, dedicated to connecting women with our authentic
voices and to helping spin our dreams golden reality. Already rockin’ it in Los Angeles, San Diego and New York, Tribal Truth is gathering some of the best of the best in women experts and facilitators in the Bay Area, speaking on a new paradigm of feminine leadership, partnership and collaboration.

What am I presenting?
You know those women who radiate, glow and are irresistibly attractive? Their lives seem golden, rich and satisfying? Their inner light switch is “switched-on” rather than on “dim?” Hold on to your seat, ladiez, and get ready for the secret for how you become one yourself.
Two special gifts for everyone who pre-registers before May 16!

Space is limited and it’s expected to be waiting list only, so grab your seat HERE.
$39 online, $49 at the door



Next week, I’m in the Super Women Summit, a powerful posse of women entrepreneurs sharing our super secrets.

If you are in business for yourself, this may be right up your super-alley.

I’m offering a class titled, “Turn Your Sensuality into Business Power”

I’ll cover the four secrets of feminine energy so you can rev your business engines and stimulate your bottom line!

Things like:

• How to stay a woman as you’re making it in a man’s world
• What creative opportunities you may be wasting when you are cut off below the waist
• How your hormones can help (rather than hurt) your efficiency
• The #1 ingredient you need in every relationship – without which they are doomed
• How your unique brand of femininity can be your secret business sauce

Click HERE get in on the Summit yourself.

For a majority of my years in business for myself, I tried to be successful by ignoring the irrefutable fact I am a woman.

Surprise, surprise: that didn’t work very well.

I had to figure out, with a lot of trial, error and tears, how to stay connected to my body, my juice and my joy, even while in business!

It will be fun to share what’s been working for me, so I hope you’ll be joining.

Oh, and some other super women I highly suggest you listen in on: Anastasia Netri, Carey Peters, Jenn August and Alexandra Jamieson – Fabulous Femmes I know personally.

That link again to get in on the Summit, use this link: http://tinyurl.com/supwom

Enjoy, super duper woman,

LiYana



Where will YOU be December 11-18th?

Might it be with me, at a retreat in Costa Rica???

So, I’ve been invited to help lead a retreat in Costa Rica, and I WANT YOU TO JOIN ME!

It’s titled EMBODYING THE FEMININE, and sports a line up of teachers to die for.

FIRST, THERE’S ROCHELLE, a dance and movement expert who teaches women to revel and rejoice in their bodies and to live wild, wise and free.

THEN, THERE’S ALISA (one of my best friends), a women’s nutrition and health expert who helps women harness the Feminine Power of Pleasure to heal “incurable” health imbalances, amp up energy and restore libido.

THEN, THERE’S YOURS TRULY, a relationship expert, who, as you know, helps women trade in painful relationship patterns for sweet confidence, radiance and sexiness – and the extraordinary partnerships of their heart.

And then, I got word I have some REALLY, REALLY SWEET DISCOUNTS TO PASS ALONG!

Here’s how it goes:

1.  I can offer 5 women $500 OFF, if you register before November 5th.
2.  Those same 5 women get a COMPLEMENTARY SESSION WITH ME (2 hours, $295 value) during the retreat.
3.  AND: I have 2 FR*EE SPOTS, when you bring a friend (friend can get $500 off), also if you register before November 5th.

Get ready to:

*  Shake your booty and access your inner wisdom
*  Get the keys to an extraordinary, unshakable love affair – with your first
*  Learn what men really want from women – and why giving  it to them is the best thing you can do for yourself
*  Remove the blocks that get in the way of pleasure, energy, and abundance
*  Discover how to use the body and food to heal and magnetize a passionate life to you!

You’ll emerge:

*  Rested, rejuvenated and relaxed
*  Clear, confident and comfortable in your own skin
*  The wise, wild and free YOU

COME. Step into your power, through the Principles of Pleasure. Shed what needs to be shed so you can BE that irresistible woman your dream partner can’t wait to finally to meet (even if – especially if you’re already with him!). Access your inner wisdom and find yourself in the luscious tropics, basking in the Feminine.

You can see the gorgeous web page, with full information here:  http://www.love3point0.com/embodying/

TO CLAIM ONE OF THE 5 DISCOUNTED SPOTS and/or one of the 2 comps, email Rochelle immediately: rochelle (at) wisewildfree (dot) com.

DEADLINE’S COMING UP, THO – NOVEMBER 5!

I can’t wait to share this with you…

Viva la feminina, LIYANA

P.S. If you can’t join us, feel free to pass this along to a woman who might be able to.

P.P.S: Sorry, guys – women only for this one.  But send a woman you know – you know you’ll thank me later.

Click here for complete, luscious information (seriously, the flier is gorgeous!) and to hold your spot!



with LiYana Silver


The 5 Secrets to becoming the happy, sexy woman your dream guy wishes he could meet!

 

• Feeling like you always have to choose between YOU and a relationship?
• Longing to feel confident and comfortable in your own skin?

• Wondering if all the good men are already taken?
• Do your efforts to solve your issues only dig you deeper into “stupid” fights?
• Having those sneaky doubts that love might just pass you by?
• Want the 5 simple secrets to becoming the happy, sexy woman your dream guy wishes he could meet?


I’m delighted to introduce …

Get S.A.S.S.Y.

The 5 Secrets to becoming the happy, sexy woman your dream guy wishes he could meet!

 

… my just-for-woman 5-part tele-series

For women, in relationship or out, this will hand you the keys to an extraordinary relationship life, where you – and it – keeps getting better and better and better.

 

In this 5-week tele-course, you can expect to find and wield:

• The skills to turn an impasse into intimacy, in an instant
• The precise recipe for putting your own oxygen mask on
first (which ups your attractiveness by leaps and bounds!)
• The 3 vital keys to feeling confident and comfortable in your
own skin (those women who “glow”? this is what they know)
• The daily recipes for a loving relationship with yourself
• Your Internal Compass, the source of your joy, satisfaction,
inner guidance, intuition, clear deciscion-making abilities.
• Elegant communication skills – ease, grace and some humour,
anyone?
• The tools to deepen your connection in every area, and have
that permeate your sensual life
• Restore your hope in lasting love!

 

Why SASSY? S. A. S. S.Y. … each one is one of the five secrets!


S . . . Stop War of Sexes (Week #1)

Discover what men really want from women (it’s not what you think); and how giving it to him is the best thing you can do for yourself
• Regain your deep respect for men, the zing of love and the soul-to-soul connection
• Get a lighter heart, and a look at true, lasting partnership.

 

 

A . . . Appreciation (Week #2)

Learn how to move from impasse to intimacy in an instant
• Get everything you want from men, in a way where he’s inspired to give it
• Set the foundation for resolving tough conflicts with ease

 

 

S . . . Self-Awareness: (Week #3)

• Learn what stands in your way of happiness, pleasure and satisfaction – and move it gently aside
• Practice a simple method for turning down the mean, catty voices in your head (yes, we all have them)
• Answer the question once and for all, “Is it him or is it me?” and expect a surge of energy as you reclaim a big dose of your lost power

 

S . . . Self-Care (Week #4)

• Those women who glow and are irresistibly attractive? This is how you become one!
• The precise recipe that sets you at your very best (how much, how often, where, when and with whom)
• Watch out for the strange side effects of increased confidence, certainty and getting comfortable in your own skin

 

 

Y . . . Your Inner Guidance System (Week #5)

Find the source of your unshakable happiness, sassiness and fulfillment
• Know in your bones when you are with the right person
• Never again have to choose between yourself (or your freedom, or your creativity or your self-expression) and the relationship
• Discover and use the Principles of Feminine power to attract and receive your desires

 

 

Over 5 weeks, I’ll walk you (and a passionate, powerful group of women) through the 5 secrets. You’ll learn, you’ll practice and you’ll integrate, so the secrets are yours for your lifetime.

So, that’s 5 tele-classes, once a week, 1.5 hours each class. You’ll get simple exercises after each class to fully integrate all you are learning. PLUS: Bonus Q+A class, just to get all your questions answered.

Can’t make a class live? Don’t worry – it will all be recorded for you to catch up easily.

 

Now that I’m a newly divorced mom of a toddler and thinking about relationships again someday, I’ve got the tools to be the woman I want to be for my son, my family, my business and someday for a lover. I’m so glad I got clear on this before embarking on another relationship that could have been doomed before it even began.

~ Megan Franzen, Mom & Health Counselor, New York

 

“LiYana helped shed 
light on dark corners and merry go rounds that all my years of 
therapy didn’t enlighten or allow me to get off the endless 
circling. And he just asked me to marry him!

~ Elizabeth D’Agostino, Nonprofit Consultant, New York

 

“Working with LiYana is like working with a sure thing!”

~ Kelly Drury, Entrepreneur, New York

 

 

Schedule:

Tuesday, October 5
Tuesday, October 12
Tuesday, October 19
Monday, October 25
Monday, November 1 (Special bonus Q&A call)
Tuesday, November 2

5:15-6:45pm Pacific time / 8:15 – 9:45pm Eastern time


What if
you do everything, show up fully, try it all 100% and you don’t make astounding progress? Don’t worry, I always offer a money-back guarantee.

 

So … which will it be for you?


Option #1: The Get SASSY 5-Part Tele-Series

Includes:

Get SASSY 5-Part Tele-Series plus bonus Q&A call
Bonus #1: Gift for Your Girlfriend: she gets it, at your price.
Bonus #2: Appreciation Mini-Bootcamp.

Regularly $495

$395 Fast Action Scholarship for the first 22 people (or until end of day, September 19,which ever is first)!


“I’m ready to Get SASSY!”

Click here to register for Option 1, get your discount and collect your bonuses!

Click here if you’d like to pay in 2-installments of $255 and collect your bonuses (no discount with this option).

 

Option #2: The Get SASSY and Change Your Relationship Destiny Package

Is it time to step out of your relationship ruts once and for all? (ugh, we know what more of the same will get you!)

Add exquisite private support to get to the source of your painful patterns so they never come back.

Includes:

Get SASSY 5-Part Tele-Series plus bonus Q&A call
3 in-depth sessions with LiYana (one-on-one, or with your partner)
Bonus #1: Gift for Your Girlfriend: she gets it, at your price
Bonus #2: Appreciation Mini-Bootcamp

Regularly $1295

$995 Fast Action Scholarship for the first 11 people (or until end of day, September 19,which ever is first)!


“I’ll take The Works, please!”

Click here to register for Option 2, get your discount, set up your sessions and collect your bonuses!

Click here if you’d like to pay in 2-installments of $655 and collect your bonuses (no discounts with this option).

 

I can’t wait to get started with you on your path to your birthright: sweet confidence, compelling radiance and an epic relationship – with yourself first!

To your sassy, saucy self,

LiYana

 

Questions? Email LiYana: liyana (at) love3point0 (dot) com or Contact LiYana here.

 



When I was little, my dad could never keep our toothbrushes straight.

So as not to keep using mine or my mom’s, he created a color-coding system.  Red for Roland (my dad), Blue for Beverly (my mom) and Yellow for LiYana (that’s me).

OK, yellow for LiYana was a stretch, but they didn’t make Lavender toothbrushes in 1979.

And the color coding system stuck, and went for things other than dental care, like jackets, pens, folders, etc.

My wonderful father passed away almost two years ago.  About 10 days ago, on Father’s day, I picked my head up out of my computer  (buried as I was in the details of an all-consuming launch), because I realized I couldn’t call him to say hi and acknowledge him for his fathering. And I missed him.

One of my coaches suggested (and please use this if it resonates with you!) that I find a sign or object for my father to let his presence be known, even that’s he’s passed. So, every time I see Red (like a bird or a valentine or lipgloss), I think of him.

It felt a little funny to be working away on a Sunday AND on Father’s Day, but this launch must go on. No turning back and all that.

Hard or as much as I work, it’s vital to me that each thing I do, whether a client session, an email, or even mundane details, be done with Love.  Love and care and good ju-ju, it all gets in there.  You can feel it.

And so it felt like a mini omen to get an email from my mom, later that Father’s day, telling me some things she remembered about her beloved husband of nearly 40 years. She signed her email, “Red for Roland, Blue for Beverly and Love for LiYana.”

Well, Dad, thanks for showing up in things like cardinals, fire engine lipstick, and my favorite crimson shirt. And, Mom, I guess instead of Yellow, it’ll be Love for LiYana from now on.

What, after all, is the color of Love?

If you want to take another peek at this launch I’ve put so much Love into, you can Love it up here:

http://www.radiance2010.com/liyana

“Love is all around you like the air, and is the very breath of  your being.” ~ Barry Long

To Love, LiYana

PS: If you are moved to, send this on to other women who might like a little more love and radiance!

http://www.radiance2010.com/liyana



Have you ever given up something NOW in order for something great LATER?

Over the past two months, I’ve given up a LOT.

It started with friends and social stuff. I needed to focus heavily on an important, juicy project at hand. I told them all I loved them, but I’d see them in 3 months.

Then, when my task list got longer and more complex, I started to eat less home-cooked, clean food and more take-out and toast.

Next, I lowered my standards of exercise from daily yoga and dance to moving only from the wrists down on my keyboard.

Sleep was the next best thing I could think of to sacrifice to the project gods. They took it willingly.

Then, se*x moved into the quickie category … and then into the none-ie category. (TMI? Sorry!)

Over the last couple of days, I considered giving up pee-ing (it’s such a chore to get up and walk down the hallway!), but I reconsiderd that one. (More TMI? Oh, well, get used to it!)

Luckily, I’ve got a lot “in reserve” to handle an insane crunch time like this.

Over the years (and getting healthy after a history of eating disorders), I’ve learned how to eat really well and cleanly for my body.

I also learned how to patient and organized, even when life feels like a game of frogger. (I’d be the frog, by the way).

After messing up every relationship I was in (and then spending over 10 years becoming a relationship coach and expert) my partner and I have developed a strong, sweet partnership that we know how to get back on track, when life derails us.

And I might be stressed for a time period, but my intuition and inner light is never out of my reach.

How did I learn stay healthy and gracious under pressure? And what’s this project I gave up so much for?

The answer is sweet. Check it out here:

http://www.radiance2010.com/package

And, I also want to tell you the easiest thing I did to keep sanity in this insane time.

I breathed. A lot. Whenever I could remember to.

Like right now, check in; can you take a big, cleansing, sweet breath? Do it again. A big one.

Your cells will get brighter and for a moment, you’ll find your center and re-connect with who you ARE.

Breathing. Respiration. It’s what separates life from death.

The word, “respiration” is a sister to the word, “inspiration.” In = take in; spire = spirit or breath. So, go, take in some breath. Take in some spirit.

And of course, please do tell me how it goes!

To you,

LiYana

PS: Oh, and if you want to see the fruit of my painful labors, it’s all here:

http://www.radiance2010.com/package



I’m just about to get on a plane to head down to balmy San
Diego, and wondering if you’ll be joining me this Sunday …

I also wonder …

If you could turn the dial of your certainty in lasting love,
would you turn it?

If there was a formula for shifting painful patterns, elegantly
and respectfully, would you want to experience it?

If there were three keys that could completely change your
relationship destiny, would you want them placed in the palm
of your hand?

On Sunday, June 13th, my colleague Matthew Blom and I will
be joyously offering you all that – and more!

It’s all here: http://www.love3point0.com/destiny/

Change Your Relationship Destiny
The Three Keys to Lasting Love

Sunday, June 13, 2010
12:00 – 6:00pm
San Diego area, CA

(For both women and men, in partnership or out)

What’s in store for you?

Read below – or use this link to watch the video!

http://www.love3point0.com/destiny/

You will experience:

* How painful patterns are formed, and the three keys for
shifting them (right at the workshop!)

* The #1 element, without which all relationships fizzle,
but with which they thrive

* How to be seen, heard and appreciated by your partner –
and maintain that on-goingly

* That some of your problems may not actually belong to
you!

* Knowing that lasting love is humanly possible

* How to communicate in ways that bring you closer, rather
than dig you deeper into conflict

* Experience the formula for untangling painful patterns,
updating your emotional inheritance & creating lasting
change

http://www.love3point0.com/destiny/

Space is extremely limited – and there are only a few spaces
left.

So do act quickly!

And in case you’re wondering if I sprung out of the head of
Zeus a relationship innovator, the answer is a big, fat NO.

I truly messed up every single relationship before the one I
am in now.  Really. Lying, cheating, shaming, blaming, getting
bored – I did it just about every way but right.

Over the years, I started asking, is it me? Is it them? Why was
I so stuck in a rut, destined to painful, short-lived
relationships?

Fast forward 10 years, and I’ve learned a thing or two – or
actually three – that I’ve gathered together in one workshop.

These are the three keys that allowed me to create the
relationship I am in now – seven years strong and sizzling,
with our marriage in a couple months!

These are the three keys that allow me to communicate
with grace and ease, to deeply appreciate my partner and
myself – and to course-correct when I get challenged.

These are the three keys that give me the certainty that
lasting love is, absolutely, humanly possible.

That link again, to claim your space and Change Your
Relationship Destiny this Sunday, June 13:

http://www.love3point0.com/destiny/

I look forward to seeing you there,

LiYana

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LiYana Silver
Relationship Expert and Coach

love3point0.com
ReDefiningMonogamy.com

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Love 3.0 & Redefining Monogamy

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San Francisco, CA
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You might not suspect this about me, being a relationship expert and coach and all, but it’s important stuff to know:

I truly messed up every single relationship before the one I am in now.  Really. Lying, cheating, shaming, blaming, getting bored – I did it just about every way but right.

Over the years, I started asking, is it me? Is it them? Why was I so stuck in a rut, destined to painful, short-lived relationships?

Fast forward 10 years, and I’ve learned a thing or two – or actually three – that I’ve gathered together in one workshop.

If you could turn the dial of your certainty in lasting love, would you turn it?

If there was a formula for shifting painful patterns, elegantly and respectfully, would you want to experience it?

If there were three keys that could completely change your relationship destiny, would you want them placed in the palm of your hand?

If you are in San Diego on Sunday, June 13th, my colleague Matthew Blom and I will be joyously offering you all that – and more!

http://www.love3point0.com/destiny/

Change Your Relationship Destiny
The Three Keys to Lasting Love

Sunday, June 13, 2010
12:00 – 6:00pm
San Diego area, CA

(For both women and men, in partnership or out)

What’s in store for you?

Read below and/or watch the video:

To claim your spot:  http://www.love3point0.com/destiny/

You will experience:

* How painful patterns are formed, and the three keys for shifting them (right at the workshop!)

* The #1 element, without which all relationships fizzle, but with which they thrive

* How to be seen, heard and appreciated by your partner – and maintain that on-goingly

* That some of your problems may not actually belong to you!

* Knowing that lasting love is humanly possible!

* How to communicate in ways that bring you closer, rather than dig you deeper into conflict

* Experience the formula for untangling painful patterns, updating your emotional inheritance & creating lasting change

http://www.love3point0.com/destiny/

Space is extremely limited – there are only 28 spaces.

So do act quickly!

These are the three keys that allowed me to create the relationship I am in now – seven years strong and sizzling, with our marriage in a couple months!

These are the three keys that allow me to communicate with grace and ease, to deeply appreciate my partner and myself – and to course-correct when I get challenged.

These are the three keys that give me the certainty that lasting love is, absolutely, humanly possible.

That link again, to claim your space and Change Your Relationship Destiny:

http://www.love3point0.com/destiny/

I look forward to seeing you there,

LiYana



Next week, I’m interviewing a guy who literally wrote the book on Why Men Do What They Do.  Seriously, he authored a book called Women Own All the Vaginas: Why Men Do What They Do.

If that book title didn’t singe some hairs off your raised eyebrows, then I don’t know what!

Are you as curious as I am to get the inside scoop from Richard Nocera, hairdresser, businessman, author and educator?

Women, men – this is not to miss!

Interview with Richard Nocera, author of Women Own All the Vaginas

Free tele-class interview
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
5:30pm Pacific time; 8:30pm Eastern time

To hold your spot and register for this fr*ee interview, use
this link:

http://www.love3point0.com/richardnocera/

I’ll get Richard expounding on:

* Why men life, distort and avoid true feelings

* Why men cannot keep a lifelong pledge of 100% monogamy

* Why heterosexual men need to come out of the closet and talk about how they actually experience their sexuality

* 29 uniquely interwoven characteristics that make a man a man

* Healing your past and becoming sexually honest

* Men have no Oprah!

* And you’ll be able to take the quiz and find out “What type of man you are.”

Mr. Nocera’s forty years of experience – owning and operating a chain of hair salons located in Boston’s exclusive western suburbs – has given him unique insight into human nature and female led relationships.

As a confidant, he listened carefully while both men and women talked about their mates, their desires, their vulnerabilities, their disappointments, and their secrets. His personal life experiences, coupled with 25 years he spent in therapy, propelled him to write his book, Women Own All the Vaginas: Why Men Do What They Do.

I’m delighted to be interviewing him next week!

That link again to hold your spot and register for this fr*ee interview:

http://www.love3point0.com/richardnocera/

This is gonna be a live one! I hope you’ll be there.

And if you have thoughts on Why Men Do What They Do – or if women really own all the vaginas, leave a comment!
Best, LiYana